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Women Want Men to Love Them Unconditionally but Want to Love Men Under Conditions

Nisha Arya Ahmed
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4 min readMar 7, 2024
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Before I get into this, I want to state that I do not speak for every woman or man. I am simply observing trends, provoking thoughts and sharing my opinion.

Unconditional love is love without strings attached.

Meaning, if I can’t give you x, y or z – you will still love me.

The want for unconditional love in the new age women that is trending consists of having a list of terms and conditions for a man.

  • What type of job does he have?
  • Can he provide for me?
  • What can he do for me?
  • How much money does he have?
  • Can he buy this for me?
  • Can he take me on x3 holidays a year?

These observations are due to the change in social norms and individual expectations. More young people are becoming financially free, setting the bar much higher when it comes to courtship.

We’re living in times of instant gratification.

And although I agree that women should choose their husbands correctly. You want to make sure you can be taken care of emotionally, physically and financially and…

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Hello, Love
Hello, Love
Nisha Arya Ahmed
Nisha Arya Ahmed

Written by Nisha Arya Ahmed

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